Generally speaking, women have a restorative effect on men's minds, bodies, and souls. Provided of course that he isn't so lustful and weak willed that he's constantly trying to bust a
nut. Sitting and chatting, having light intimacy, and any other quality time activities are great for both men and women.
However, it is the weak of wanting of men and the selfishness and hunger of women that have made this current generation so toxically codependent, in ways that older generations didn't often have problems with. By teaching boys and girls to restrain themselves every so often, our ancestors moved mountains.
Very rare to see such wholesomness online, but if you look close enough in real life you might be pleasantly surprised. By being loving and receptive of love, I suspect such things are possible for you as well.