so i’m currently working at a law ﬁrm and the other day one of the attorneys was talking to me and he mentioned that he’s “not very I:: confrontationa and iwas like you are?? a lawyer??? and he said “yeah but in court there are rules. i can argue with some shmuck in a suit in front of a judge no problem, but when i leave the courthouse and go home i’m not gonna argue with my wife about dinner. there are no rules in our kitchen. i would die.” there are no rules in our kitchen. i would die.