Need more women like this The other day my boyfriend and I went out to lunch and I paid for our food. He was in the bathroom as I paid and the cashier took that as her opportunity to scold me. "Don't be paying for him, let him buy his own food!" I stared at her in shock, the total was less than $15. I told her we both work and got my change, I refuse to be a woman who lives life with her hand out. You get what you give and if I can't happily buy my man a sandwich what is equalityi Women, get your heads out of cinderelias ass and embrace reality.