• “ beetledrink
not to get too deep on main but did anyone else have
such deeply rooted issues with their self worth for so
long that they thought as a kid/teen that their only
redeeming feature was being “low maintenance” and
now as an adult you give yourself guilt pangs asking
for any more than the barest minimum in virtually
any relationship because asking for things might
negate your only good quality which isjust “doesn’t
ask for things”
Eyou don’t believe you can be liked so you settle for
being useful
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    • My parentd acted as if it was the worst chore they’re ever received to drive me anywhere, so I avoided joining activities, sports, or hobbies that couldn’t be done in our apartment. They didn’t let me walk anywhere neither because “I’ll get kidnaped”
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    • This hit pretty hard actually
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    • Yes. And you don’t ask people to do things because you’re afraid of unnecessarily taking up their time, ultimately leading to you losing friends because they believe you don’t want to be around them. Don’t be afraid to ask people to do things.
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    • This post walked into my home, grabbed me by the ankles, and swung me into every available surface
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    • Well damn that one was a little close to home
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    • Its because we're being raised by absolute fuckwads. I dont know what happened but some generation just fucked up big time and made our parents shit.
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    • I wish it was possible for you all to think about this how I do. I don’t feel this way now because I had to feel this way growing up. I’ve been thru a lot and have learned that you are the most important thing to yourself and you HAVE to do whatever it takes to make you happy. Even if that means
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    • Yikes. Am I really this mentally messed up? Should I see a therapist?
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    • I’m in this post and I don’t like it
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    • Can’t relate because I’ve never had a relationship due to low self esteem and the inability to detect if someone likes me or is just being nice
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    • Um that made my heart hurt cause I didn't acknowledge I did this until..right now. Excuse me as I go read on wattpad so I can ignore my emotions and feel artificial ones.
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    • I'm dead bc this hit me so hard in the heart
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    • That last sentence actually almost perfectly says it for me. It’s weird I see EVERYONE saying “same” irl, but they’re the same ones that always got invited to do stuff and hang out and have ppl go up to THEM to talk, and I’m here like yea no u don’t get it
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    • Always try to date people you think are too good for you. Anything else means you’ve settled, and it won’t last
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    • God that hit a little to close to home
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    • I literally couldn’t think of any reason why anyone would love me or want to be in a relationship and so I settled for the fact that I’m gonna be alone. And I did. Even in relationships. I was alone. No one loved me.
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    • 8m in this picture and I don't like it
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    • I’m in this pic and I don’t like it
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    • I’ve always been praised by my mum for being low maintenance so I thought it was a great thing. Reading this made me realize that I was only not asking for stuff because if I asked my step dad (now my ex step dad but he was very abusive), he would yell in my face and give my sister stuff instead.
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    • Persona 5 taught me: Fuck what everyone else thinks you’ll finally be happy and accepted by the right people when you accept who you are and be who YOU want to be no one else.
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    • Wait, y'all are getting... relationships?
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    • I’ve never had any one else understand that feeling
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    • Or your the boyfriend who never says no, then you become the husband who never says no and now your in too deep to ask to be met halfway
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    • Im in this picture and i dont like it
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    • I like to think that coping with my low self esteem by receiving validation by being useful is a more positive way to manifest those emotions than just complaining about being depressed or unloved.
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    • All I wanna do is cuddle or hug someone that I really love, but I’m too scared to look for a relationship because of all the drama surrounding them these days, along with more reasons of course.
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    • This makes me genuinely uncomfortable. Like, not the edgy teen oh mah god I’m so sad that is actually verbatim me
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    • Hey....I didn't ask for you to be this accurate okay
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    • I grew up constantly being told that my father and anything he did was worthless. It later on made me feel the exact same way. I never ask for anything from anyone because I felt I had nothing to offer, yet I would have anything for anyone to prove that I matter. All changed a couple months ago
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    • I’m in this picture and I don’t like it
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    • I treat everyone so much better than myself because I prefer when others are happy. Making others happy makes me happy
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    • People are blaming it on strict parents but I don’t even have strict parents and I feel this way. Well, they aren’t VERY strict with me since I’m the youngest.
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    • I just had a sad woke ass moment
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    • Wait a fukin second that's relatable af
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    • The only good thing my dad ever said about me is that i dont ask for much. Fuck you.
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    • Hi I got straight A’s this year and graduated from high school and got candy as a reward. My sister got straight F’s, no summer school, and a bunch of random gifts showing up at the house my dad bought for her. Can I get like a congrats or something
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    • Honestly it gives me purpose and I love it. If someone needs help I’ll sit and just listen to them or if they need something I’m willing to go out of my way to help, I don’t mind it so long as they actually need it or I have time for it.
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    • I’m in this photo and I don’t like it.
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    • I don’t believe I can be liked... and I’m not useful. A duo of ‘unlikely to be in a relationship’.
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    • See I do that all the time, and then that leads to me trying to fix every problem in my life by myself which makes more problems. I’m just know learning that it’s okay to accept respect from people and to ask for help when you need it.
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    • I'm in this post and I don't like it
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    • I was just poor and I never got what i asked for for birthday/Christmas etc. So that bleed over to my personality
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    • I was praised for being quiet and would always sit with adults, i never knew how to interact with kids my age
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    • After elementary school i tried my damndest to find some way I could make and keep friends because so far I had two people I could consider friends and even then they rarely talked to me, so I chose to develop a sense of humor powered by my own stupidity, so far ive been able to make fun of myself
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    • This hit me in the feels
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    • I feel so called out.
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    • I feel personally attacked. Whenever someone asks me what I want for Christmas or my birthday I always respond with "I dunno, I don't like asking for things..."
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    • See I realized this after a while and just started placing myself above others I think are below me. Egotistical? Yes. Narcissistic? Absolutely. A good idea? Hell no. Does it work? Hell yes.
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    • Well that seems to hit me in something. Something deep. Possibly repressed far into my unfeeling mind. I may have some brain unboxing to do.
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    • Wait, you guys are getting relationships?
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    • I did as I was told for 16 years of my life and now I have issues with making decisions for myself and always expecting to be told to do something, I noticed it when I won't do anything at work until I was told to do something, really sucks but I'm working on it
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    • I have trouble with a lot of this. People can offer me food or to buy me food or some water or something, or even just genuinly ask if I need anything- and I can rarely say yes because I don't want to inconvenience anyone in any way, or be a burden.
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    • Yeah. Realized my self esteem is shit and that it’s because my parents raised me never to inconvenience anyone and always assume that they are more important than you. Fucked over my self esteem really. It’s pretty deep rooted lol
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    • Normally I dont approve of these posts being featured but damn this hit home
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    • 🎵 Therapy + Prescriptions 🎵 I’m in my 30’s and finally starting to figure it out. There’s hope friends. 💕🙂
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    • Was uh...was I supposed to grow out of that?
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    • I used to think people were only nice to me cause they thought i was retarded.
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    • Damn you really had to call me out like that huh
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    • Pretty much sums up what "being a man" is all about in the current era
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    • I’d appreciate if you stopped writing posts about me
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    • I mean you coulda just tagged me
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    • I'm in this post and I don't like it.
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    • If I can't find any redeeming features in myself why would I expect anyone else to. Low self worth sucks
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    • This is literally me, I feel like I'd be a bother or overstep some boundaries. I realized how little self worth I had that when asked what my best quality was I literally sat in silence and couldn't think of anything
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    • Don't know about anyone else but for me this comes from my dad always working and my mom always lazing around and acting like it was such a bother when I wanted to do something with someone and then turning around and telling me I'm useless for not doing anything
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    • I feel called out and I don’t appreciate tht
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    • Ouch. This one hurt chief.
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    • I honestly used to think as a child that I didn’t deserve the same things as other children because I didn’t act out and go crazy like they did
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    • I’m in this picture and I don’t like it
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    • Fam why’d you have to expose me like that
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    • If you're a man, don't listen to that sentiment; your attractiveness is directly proportional to your ability to climb the socioeconomic latter. Kindness and emotional availability are mere prerequisites to being an attractive male. Climb to the top of the pile or give up.
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    • I wanna improve myself in so many ways but I both don't no where to start and never have the drive
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    • I am in this post but didn’t realize it till just now....
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    • Why was I just called out so fucking hard?
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    • Before I broke up with my ex, she had given me pretty much every compliment I could ever get. Then I found out she cheated on me. Now, I can't hear anyone complimenting me and trust them.
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    • I never asked for anything.. i gave everything i could.. and when i finally asked for just.. the bare minimum .. just to stop talking bad behind my back and to defend me when i cant.. i lost all my friends..
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    • I've never related to something more in my life
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    • I’m in this photo and I don’t like it
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    • Yeah, mine was that I'd settle for anything. I was really proud of being able to put up with anything that was thrown my way until my sister made me realize he wasn't being clingy or quirky, he was downright abusive. Kinda fucked with my perspective of myself a little.
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    • I don't know why .. I never thought of this as true and it doesn't sound like me but it's hitting some strings and now I'm almost crying wtf.
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    • Yep
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    • Well now I’m starting to think that’s my only good quality
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